Though “Mates” is seen at present as a really secure, cozy sitcom, it did have its moments the place it pushed the boundaries of what mainstream tv was allowed to do in its time. The present was very frank about its characters’ intercourse lives, and whereas its depiction of LGBTQ+ individuals is definitely dated now, “Mates” was fairly progressive in that respect by ’90s requirements. The mere indisputable fact that a lot of the primary season featured Ross’s ex Carol (Jane Sibbett), who raises a baby along with her soon-to-be spouse, was spectacular contemplating that it could take one other 20 years earlier than two ladies in New York have been even allowed to get married.
For essentially the most half, “Mates” was allowed to be progressive for its time with out being troubled by the networks, however two episodes all through its run did trigger sufficient controversy to be pulled from sure channels. Season 2’s “The One with the Lesbian Marriage ceremony” and season 4’s “The One with the Free Porn” have been each pulled from numerous networks at sure factors, though for very completely different causes.
Why ‘The One With the Lesbian Marriage ceremony’ was banned
1996’s “The One With the Lesbian Marriage ceremony” begins off with Ross discovering out that Carol and Susan are getting married; he initially refuses to have any half on this, not due to homophobia however as a result of he is nonetheless bitter about Carol leaving him and Susan stealing his spouse. Nevertheless, Ross is compelled to get entangled after the marriage’s caterer will get in an accident and the couple ask Monica to supply the meals as an alternative.
What’s fascinating is that this episode had the prospect to play either side right here; it may’ve saved Ross upset concerning the marriage ceremony for private causes with out him performing homophobic to the viewers whereas additionally avoiding having the episode really feel like an excessive amount of of an endorsement of marriage equality. That might’ve been the secure selection on the time, and one which may not have alienated too many conservatives all through the nation. As an alternative, the episode sees Ross having a change of coronary heart after he finds out that Carol’s homophobic dad and mom refused to attend the marriage, which results in him turning into Susan and Carol’s greatest supporter.
The outrage from viewers nationwide was much less extreme than the creatives on “Mates” had anticipated, with “The One With the Lesbian Marriage ceremony” being largely celebrated by the media as an indication of how far the LGBTQ+ motion had come. “A major-time same-sex marriage ceremony might need provoked widespread revolt amongst community associates not too a few years in the past, however NBC reported that solely two — KJAC in Port Arthur, Texas, and WLIO in Lima, Ohio — had determined that the ‘Mates’ episode was ‘not applicable’ for his or her viewers,” the Portland Press Herald famous on the time. “Then again, 212 associates selected to broadcast the half-hour section. In different phrases, the most important information concerning the marriage ceremony on ‘Mates’ was that it was virtually not information in any respect.”
Along with being a daring argument in favor of queer marriage at a time the place it was unlawful in all 50 states, “The One with the Lesbian Marriage ceremony” additionally helps to present Ross closure about his failed marriage with Carol. Poor Ross was struggling onerous with getting over Carol all through the primary season, and that is the episode the place he can absolutely transfer on from that painful a part of his life. Carol and Susan are barely talked about in later seasons of the present, and that is as a result of this episode wrapped up all of the battle baked into their storyline.
Why ‘The One with the Free Porn’ was banned
The March 1998 episode “The One with the Free Porn” options Joey and Chandler unintentionally discovering a free porn channel on their TV. Fearing that in the event that they click on away they could lose it eternally, the 2 determine to maintain the TV on it doesn’t matter what. The episode options a variety of implied intercourse on the TV, in addition to a number of frank discussions concerning the professionals and cons of pornography.
That is additionally why “The One with the Free Porn” was skipped throughout “Mates” reruns in the UK; the temporary clips of the porn on the TV was thought-about inappropriate for the time of day the episode usually aired. Basically, Channel 4 and E4 had an inclination to chop a variety of the present’s references to pornography; as an illustration, there’s one other scene in season 9 the place Chandler watches porn (in “The One with the Sharks”) that was edited out of day-time reruns.
The excellent news for British followers of “Mates” is that the present was picked up in 2011 by Comedy Central UK, a channel that had zero qualms about exhibiting any of the collection’ NSFW moments. These days, British followers can take pleasure in each episode of “Mates” identical to any American, with no lower scenes or edited dialogue. It solely took 13 years, however from 2011 onward, “The One with the Free Porn” within the UK bought to take pleasure in the identical standing as the remainder of the present’s syndicated episodes (even the worst ones).